01 Ukuhlalisana ngemvisiswano kweekati nezinja

Ngeemeko zokuphila zabantu eziphucuka ngakumbi, abahlobo abagcina izilwanyana zasekhaya abasaneliseki sisilwanyana esinye. Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba ikati okanye inja kwintsapho iya kuba nesithukuthezi kwaye ifune ukubafumanela iqabane. Ngaphambili, kwakudla ngokuba kugcinwe uhlobo olufanayo lwezilwanyana, emva koko kufunwe ikati nenja ukuba zihambe nazo. Kodwa ngoku abantu abaninzi bafuna ukufumana iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo zokukhuliswa kwezilwanyana, ngoko baya kuqwalasela zombini iikati kunye nezinja; Kukwakho nabanye abahlobo abakhathalela amantshontsho namantshontsho ekati alahliweyo ngenxa yothando lwabo.

Ebusweni babahlobo ababenezilwanyana zasekhaya ekuqaleni, ukukhulisa izilwanyana ezintsha kunye nezahlukileyo kwakhona akuyongxaki. Ukutya, ukusela amanzi, ukuya kwindlu yangasese, ukuzilungisa, ukuhlamba, nokugonya zonke ezo zinto ziqhelekile. Ekuphela kwento ekufuneka ujongane nayo yingxaki yokuvisisana phakathi kwezilwanyana zasekhaya ezintsha kunye nezilwanyana zakudala ekhaya. Ngokukodwa, iikati kunye nezinja, ezingenalo ulwimi okanye ezinye izinto eziphikisanayo, zihlala zifuna ukuhamba ngezigaba ezithathu, Ukuqina kunye nobude bokuziphatha kunye nokusebenza komlinganiswa kwezi zigaba zintathu zinxulumene nohlobo kunye neminyaka yeekati nezinja.

Ngokuqhelekileyo sahlulahlula iikati kunye nezinja kwiindidi ezininzi ngokweempawu zamacala omabini: 1. iikati kunye neentsana ezikhulile ngeminyaka okanye ubuntu, iikati zizinzile kwaye iinjana zidlamkile; 2. Izinja namantshontsho ekati. Izinja zizinzile kwaye amakati anomdla; Iinja ezi-3 ezithuleyo kunye neekati; Iintlobo ezi-4 ezisebenzayo zezinja kunye neekati; 5. Iikati nezinja ezikhaliphileyo nezithobekileyo njengeekati ezinopopi; Iikati nezinja ezi-6 ezoyikisayo nezinovelwano;

Enyanisweni, ikati iyoyika kakhulu ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuhamba okukhulu kwenja. Ukuba idibana nenja ecothayo kwaye ingakhathali nantoni na, ikati iya kuvuya ukuyamkela. Phakathi kwabo, imeko yesihlanu iphantse yenza iikati kunye nezinja zihlale kunye ngokufanelekileyo, ngelixa imeko yesithandathu inzima kakhulu. Ikati iyagula okanye inja yenzakele, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uphile kakuhle kamva.

02 Inqanaba lokuqala lobudlelwane bekati nenja

Inqanaba lokuqala lobudlelwane phakathi kweekati nezinja. Izinja zizilwanyana ezithanda abantu. Xa ilungu elitsha lifunyenwe ekhaya, liya kusoloko lifuna ukwazi ngonxibelelwano lwangaphambili, linukise ivumba lomnye umntu, libambe umzimba womnye umntu ngeenzipho zalo, live amandla omnye umntu, lize ligwebe ubudlelwane besimo phakathi komnye umntu kunye naye ekhaya. Ikati sisilwanyana esihlala sodwa. Ilumkile ngokwemvelo. Ikulungele kuphela ukunxibelelana nezilwanyana ezibonileyo okanye ezivavanye ngokucacileyo isakhono somnye. Ayiyi kudibana ngokuthe ngqo nezilwanyana ezingaqhelekanga. Ke kubomi bemihla ngemihla, xa izinja kunye neekati zidibana ekhaya kwasekuqaleni, izinja zihlala zisebenza ngelixa iikati zingenzi nto. Iikati ziya kuzifihla phantsi kweetafile, izitulo, iibhedi okanye iikhabhathi, okanye zikhwele kwiirakhi, iibhedi kunye nezinye iindawo apho izinja zingakwaziyo ukusondela khona, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe zijonge izinja. Ukulinganisa isantya, amandla, kunye nokusabela kwenja kwezinye izinto zisongela kuye, kwaye ukuba inja inokuphunyuka ngexesha xa imsukela.

Inja iya kuhlala ileqa ikati ukuze ibone kwaye ijoje ngeli xesha. Xa ikati iya apho, inja iya kulandela apho. Nangona ikati ayinakuqhagamshelwa, inja iya kugada elinye icala njengomgcini-mnyango. Emva kokuba ikati inalo naliphi na isenzo esicacileyo, inja iya kuxhuma okanye ikhuphe ngovuyo, njengokungathi ithi: "Yiza, yiza, iphuma, iphinde ihambe".

Ngeli nqanaba, ukuba inja ikhulile kwaye inomlingiswa ozinzile, ikati yikati esandul 'ukuqala ukunxibelelana nehlabathi kwaye inomdla malunga nenja, okanye ikati kunye nenja zimbini iintlobo ezizinzileyo, ngoko kuya kudlula ngokukhawuleza. kwaye ngokukhawuleza; Ukuba ikati endala okanye injana, ikati ilumke kakhulu malunga nendawo eyingqongileyo, kwaye inja ikhuthele kakhulu, eli nqanaba liya kuba lide kakhulu, kwaye abanye baya kuthatha iinyanga ezi-3-4. Kuphela xa umonde wenja uphela kwaye ukuqapha kwekati akunamandla kunokungena kwisigaba sesibini.

03 Iikati nezinja zingamaqabane

Inqanaba lesibini lobudlelwane phakathi kweekati nezinja. Emva kokujonga izinja ixesha elithile kunye nokuqhelana nokuziphatha okuthile, izenzo kunye nesantya sezinja, iikati ziya kuqala ukukhulula ukuqapha kwazo kwaye zizame ukudibanisa kunye nokusebenzisana nezinja. Izinja, ngakolunye uhlangothi, zichasene. Ngokuqwalaselwa kweekati, bafumanisa ukuba iikati zihlala ziyancipha kwindawo encinci kwaye zingahambi, kwaye aziphumi ukudlala. Ngokuthe ngcembe, umdla wabo uya uphela, yaye abachulumancisi kangako. Kodwa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abaqhelananga kakhulu kwaye baya kugcina inqanaba elithile lokufuna ukwazi. Banethemba lokuba baza kuhlangana emzimbeni baze badlale kunye.

Eyona ntsebenzo ixhaphakileyo yikati ehleli esitulweni okanye ilele etafileni, ibukele inja imi okanye ihleli phantsi, izama ukufikelela ukuze impampathe intloko yenja kunye nomsila oshukumisayo. Xa usenza esi senzo, ikati ayiyi kukhwela (ukuba i-pawing ibonisa ukwesaba kunye nomsindo), kwaye ayiyi kulimaza inja ukuba isebenzisa nje i-pad yenyama ukuyibamba, oku kuthetha ukuba ubuhlobo kunye nokuhlolisisa. Ngenxa yokuba ukunyakaza kuya kucotha kakhulu, inja eqhelekileyo ayiyi kufihla, kwaye iya kuvumela ikati ukuba izithintele. Kakade ke, ukuba inja yintlobo esebenzayo kakhulu, iya kucinga ukuba le nxalenye yomdlalo, kwaye emva koko iphendule ngokukhawuleza, okuya kwenza ikati ibe nexhala kwaye iyeke ukudibanisa kwaye ifihle kwakhona.

Kweli nqanaba, ukuba izinja ezincinci kunye neekati ezinkulu, izinja ezisebenzayo kunye neekati ezisebenzayo, okanye iinjana kunye neekati zihlangene, ziya kuhlala ixesha elide, kwaye omnye nomnye uya kuqhelana ngokudlala kunye nokuhlola. Ukuba inja enkulu, inja ezolileyo kunye nekati ezolileyo, baya kuchitha ixesha elikhawulezayo. Basenokuqhelana omnye nomnye ngeveki, baze baphelise ukuqaphela kwabo kwaye bangene kwisigqi sobomi obuqhelekileyo kwixesha elizayo.

Inqanaba lesithathu lobudlelwane phakathi kweekati nezinja. Eli nqanaba lubudlelwane bexesha elide phakathi kweekati kunye nezinja. Izinja zamkela iikati njengamalungu eqela ukuba ziqulathe kwaye zikhusele, ngelixa iikati ziphatha izinja njengamaqabane okanye abantu abaxhomekeke kubo. Izinja zibuyela kwixesha labo lokulala lemihla ngemihla kunye nexesha eligqithisiweyo lomsebenzi, kwaye ingqalelo yabo ibuyela kubanini bazo, iphuma ukuya kudlala nokutya, ngelixa iikati ziqala ukuthembela ngakumbi kwizinja xa zidibana nezinja.

Ukusebenza okuqhelekileyo kukuba ukuba inja enkulu ekhaya inokuzisa ukhuseleko kunye nokufudumala kwikati, ngakumbi ebusika, ikati iya kuhlala ilala nenja, kwaye umzimba wonke uya kulala enja, kwaye uya kuba ezinye izinto. phezu kwetafile ukwenzela ukukholisa inja kwaye ubethe umhlaba ukuba inja idle; Baya kuzifihla ngasese baze basondele kwinja ngovuyo, baze bahlasele kwaye bahlasele ngelixa inja ingahoywa; Baza kulala ecaleni kwenja kwaye babambe imilenze yenja kunye nomsila esibhakabhakeni ukuze bahlafune kwaye bakrwele (ngaphandle kwamathupha). Izinja ngokuthe ngcembe zilahlekelwa ngumdla wazo kwiikati, ngakumbi izinja ezinkulu ziyayiyeka ikati ijike kwaye ijike njengabantwana, ngamanye amaxesha yenze ukugquma okusongelayo xa ibuhlungu, okanye ibethe ikati ecaleni ngeenzipho zayo. Izinja ezincinci zidla ngokuxhatshazwa ziikati kwixesha elizayo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iikati ezinobukhulu obufanayo zinamandla ngakumbi kunezinja.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuba iikati nezinja zihlale kunye kukuphepha ukukrwela ukukrwela amehlo enja ngenqindi lekati kwasekuqaleni, nokwabelana ngokutya kwenja xa ikati icinga ukuba kulungile nenja kwisigaba samva. Izinja azikuthandi kwaphela ukwabelana ngokutya, ngoko kuya kwahluka xa kutyiwa. Ukuba ikati izama ukwabelana ngokutya, inokubethwa yinja entloko, okanye ilunywe de ife.