Ukuqonda Iilwimi Zomzimba Wenja

Ukuqonda ulwimi lomzimba wenja kubalulekile ekwakheni ubudlelwane obuqinileyo noluthembekileyo kunye nomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine.Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kuba izinja zingumthombo wepositivity engenamkhawulo.Ngaba uyazi ukuba isilwanyana sakho sizama ukukuxelela ntoni kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo?

Nazi 16 imikhondo eluncedo ukuba uqonde inja yakho ngcono.

Inja ijiwuzisa umsila wayo ophantsi.

Ukuba inja ijiwuzisa umsila ngokucothayo, oku kuthetha ukuba ayiqondi ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni.Inja ikubuza ukuba ufuna yenze ntoni.Kufuneka umncede ajonge imeko.

Xa umsila wenja ushukuma ngokukhawuleza, oku kuthetha ukuba iyavuma ukuba nguwe ophetheyo.

Umsila uphakanyisiwe kwaye ungcangcazela kancinci.

Oku kuthetha ukuba inja yakho ikhupha umngeni kwigunya lakho.Kungenxa yokuba ezigqala njengoyena ulawula le meko.Kule meko, inja yakho izibona ikhaliphile kwaye yomelele.Ukwimo epholileyo kwaye uzama ukuthi “Ndiyazingca.Ndiziva ndimnandi!”

Umsila ufakwe phakathi kwemilenze.

Umsila ogobileyo luphawu lokuba inja iyoyika okanye ayiziva kakuhle.Amaxesha amaninzi inja ifaka umsila phakathi kwemilenze yakhe.Xa isoyika ngokwenene into okanye umntu.Nangona kunjalo, ukuba akukho zizathu zicacileyo zokukhathazeka kwaye isilwanyana sakho sibambe umsila rhoqo, kufuneka usise kugqirha wezilwanyana.Nika ingqalelo emehlweni enja.

Tamehlo avulekile, avulekile kwaye aqaphile.

Le yindlela isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya esizama ngayo ukufumana ingqalelo yakho.Oku kuthetha ukuba uyakucela umngeni.Kwakhona, inja yakho ilindele ukuba uphendule ngokuqinileyo.Gcina ukhumbule ukuba xa usondela kwinja engaqhelekanga,

kungcono ukuphepha ukujonga ngqo emehlweni akhe.Kwizinja, ukujonga emehlweni kuthetha ukuba ndlongondlongo.

Tinja iyaqhwanyaza kwaye iyaqhwanyaza.

Oku kuthetha ukuba ukulungele ukudlala.Lixesha lokumjulela ibhola ayithandayo okanye uthathe uhambo.

Ukuba inja yakho ikrwaqula kakhulu, amehlo ayo anokuba sentlungwini.Kule meko Kungcono ukuba umse kugqirha wezilwanyana.Iindlebe zenja zinokukuxelela into ebalulekileyo malunga nemo yesilwanyana sakho.

TIindlebe zime nkqo

Inja ikubonisa ukuba inomdla kwaye isabela kwisiganeko esitsha kwindawo yayo.Oku kuthetha ukuba inja yakho inikela ingqalelo kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo

TIindlebe zithe tye entloko

Luphawu lokuba inja iyoyika.Ngamanye amaxesha isilwanyana sakho sinokuba nendlebe enye kuphela, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi isekhohlo.Le yindlela izinja ezisabela ngayo kubantu abangabaziyo okanye abantu eziboyikayo.Ukuba akukho nto iyingozi eyenzekayo ngeenxa zonke, zama ukuzola inja yakho ngokuyiphulula.

Inja iyazamla.

Oku kuthetha ukuba inja yakho inomsindo kwaye inovalo.Iinjana zikwenza oku rhoqo xa zingqongwe yinja enkulu engaqhelekanga.Kodwa ukuba isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya sizamla emva kwakho, oku kuthetha ukuba sisondele kakhulu kuwe.kusemva kwexesha lokulala

Tinja ikhotha ubuso bayo

Inja yenza oku xa icinezelekile okanye iva uxinzelelo okanye ingozi.Kwakhona, ngesi senzo, inja inokukhuthaza abahlaseli ukuba bahlale bezolile.

Inja iveza amazinyo ayo, kodwa akukho kugquma.

Oku kuthetha ukuba inja ikhusela ummandla wayo.Izilwanyana zasekhaya zihlala zikwenza oku ngelixa zisitya.

Ungaze usondele kwinja engaqhelekanga, eneneni, kuso nasiphi na isilwanyana-ngelixa besitya, kuba basenokucinga ukuba uya kuba ukutya kwabo.